Love or Manipulation

I’ve seen posts that say “I love too hard”. Actually, that’s not possible, because love is perfect. It may be that you’re manipulative. You’re doing the right things for a person, but it’s not about them. It’s about what you want them to do for you. You’re good to that man because you want him to marry you. You’re good to that woman because you want her to have sex with you. Then, in the end, when you don’t get what you want, you regret everything. 

You do not “love too hard”. As Harpo said, “No such a thang!” What you call "love" is really manipulation. You need to be sincere, and stop going into relationships with hidden, selfish motives.